What Your Dog Taught You About Love: Mining Your Grief for Gratitude (Without Toxic Positivity)

Being told to "focus on gratitude" after losing your dog can feel like toxic positivity that dismisses your grief. But genuine gratitude and devastating loss aren't opposites—they're companions. Charlie taught me profound lessons about unconditional love, presence, and vulnerability in just three years. His short life changed everything, and acknowledging those gifts doesn't diminish the pain of losing him. If you're struggling to honor what your dog gave you while being honest about how much it hurts, this is for you. Learn how to hold gratitude and grief together without bypassing the hard emotions or forcing premature healing.